The "booby prize" in life is trying to understand or change the behavior of an emotionally unavailable person.(Only they can change themselves.) People can be for both healthy and unhealthy reasons.I finally met an emotionally available, nice guy after going through my fair share of emotionally unavailable men.We’ve been dating for about two months now and have hit a rough patch.Here are the signs to know if you're in a relationship with such a man, who doesn't understand the concept of giving you any space at all. Constant sweet talker: Post first date, this man will sweet talk, but 'always'.
While a part of you goes 'Aww', there's another part that wonders how clingy their man really is.Have you ever met someone who "romantically" knocked you off your feet -- as in "Hi Mom and Dad...you're not going to believe this, but I just met the man of my dreams! How did they miss the obvious warning signs before they became intimate and gave their heart away? " or "He wants the same thing I want: to settle down and have children.") For those of us who've been in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable person, we know the pain of not being able to get close to the person we love.I’m wondering if I should just call it a loss and move on?I want a nice guy, but not an emotionally needy one.